Life Lessons
There comes a time when the weight of your own decisions sits heavier than the expectations of others. For me, that time was in my early forties. The renovation business that once felt like my empire had become a treadmill. My marriage of 15 years was dissolving. And I was asking myself a question many avoid: Is this it?
What followed was not an epiphany but a reckoning. I walked away from the dust and drywall, declined the chaos I had curated, and leaned into discomfort. It wasn't sexy. It wasn’t glamorous. But it was necessary.
Here's what I learned:
1. Success Needs Rewriting
The version of success I chased was borrowed: the hustle-hard, own-a-business, grind-to-glory myth. But it left me overworked and underwhelmed. Real success, I found, meant autonomy, contribution, and waking up without dread.
2. Skill Stacking Wins
Carpentry taught me precision. Sales taught me persuasion. Management taught me strategy. When I stepped into a new leadership role in hardware distribution, I didn’t start from zero; I stacked skills I had earned through bruises and breakthroughs.
3. Walk Toward the Hard Thing
Reinvention is brutal. You’ll grieve who you thought you were supposed to be. But if you're willing to face it, life will meet you with clarity.
Mid-life isn't a crisis. It's a crossroads. And if you're brave enough, it can be a beginning.
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Thanks for reading. I’m David Walmsley—cabinetmaker by trade, sales leader by evolution, and someone who’s learned (sometimes the hard way) how to turn hands-on experience into real business growth.
david@uugroupltd.com
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