✍️ By Debbie Balfour | WBN News | September 10, 2025 | Click HERE for your FREE Subscription to WBN News and/or to be a Contributor.

If you’re trying to raise money for your next deal, here’s a little tough love: stop blasting cold pitches to strangers. Nothing kills a potential relationship faster than a message that jumps straight into “I’ve got a great deal, want in?”

Think about what you’re asking. Investors are being asked to hand over $50K, $100K, or more of their hard-earned money. Do you really think they’ll do that just because someone they don’t know sends a nice DM? Real estate is a relationship-driven business. People don’t invest in deals. They invest in you.

If you haven’t taken the time to build credibility, share your strategy, and show who you are, you’re not raising capital, you’re raising red flags.


Why Cold Pitches Fail

Imagine being on the receiving end. Someone adds you on LinkedIn today, and tomorrow they’re asking for money. Their profile is empty, they’ve never posted content, and they only show up when they want something. Would you ever trust them with your capital? Of course not.

Most investors are naturally cautious. They’re actively scanning for reasons not to trust you. A cold pitch gives them that reason on a silver platter.


What Actually Works

If you want to consistently attract investors, you need to flip the script. Here’s how:

1. Build a Personal Brand Around Your Strategy
Don’t just say you “invest in real estate.” Be known for something specific. Maybe you create affordable housing solutions. Maybe you target mid-term rentals for traveling nurses. Or maybe you specialize in student housing near universities. The clearer you are, the easier it is for people to connect you with the right opportunities.

2. Create Trust Through Consistency
Trust doesn’t come from one conversation. It comes from repeated exposure to value. Post insights on your market, share lessons from your journey, and explain how you protect investor capital. Even sharing your mistakes can demonstrate thoughtfulness and transparency.

3. Nurture Relationships First
When someone connects, ask about their goals. Engage with their content. Share resources that could help them. People invest with those they know, like, and trust. Focus on building those three things before you ever mention a deal.

4. Position Yourself as a Professional
You’re not just raising money—you’re running a business. That means having a polished investor presentation, organized systems for communication, and a long-term mindset. Investors notice when you treat your work seriously.


Final Word of Tough Love

I get it, you’re eager to close your next deal. But if you skip the steps that create trust, you’ll always feel like you’re chasing money. Remember:

Credibility before capital
Relationships before requests
Strategy before sales

Build your foundation right, and instead of you chasing capital, capital will come chasing you.


Debbie Balfour | Real Estate Investing Success Coach + Podcast Host
📍 Website: www.DebbieBalfour.com
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