Aging Isn’t The Enemy. Frailty Is.

By Les Mottosky

We’ve been conditioned to accept decline as natural. But it’s not time that takes us down. It’s weakness gone unaddressed. Frailty kills not just bodies, but spirit, resilience, and agency.

It shows up everywhere. In the body, it’s stiffness and loss of strength. In the mind, it’s resignation and rigidity. In the spirit, it’s the quiet surrender of curiosity, courage, and meaning. Left unchecked, passive routines hollow out vitality.

But frailty isn’t inevitable, just unopposed. And when we name it as the real adversary, we stop fighting time and start building strength where it counts.

The antidote to frailty isn’t in a gym or a book. It’s in cultivating robustness; across mindset, metabolism, movement, relationships, purpose and body. This isn't a pop-psychology pep talk. It's backed by scientific data. Lots of it. A key bio-marker for longevity is grip strength. Right along-side that, leg strength is another accurate predictor.

To achieve either of those requires robustness from our other characteristics.

And while robustness is the baseline, we can aim higher yet: toward anti-fragility.

Coined by Nassim Taleb, anti-fragility is the ability to grow stronger from stress. Muscles. Bones. Ideas. Relations. They all get better with challenge. If we train our minds accordingly.

This is the path to Post-Traumatic Growth. The one Viktor Frankl mapped through suffering. It’s not about avoiding hardship; it’s about learning to dose it. Lifting heavier things. Asking harder questions. Engaging uncomfortable conversations.

Frailty never kicks the door in. It slips through the basement window of convenience, whispering: “Comfort is the grandest prize.” But those who live fully know it’s not. Despite the Western tendency to embrace security, convenience, and of course, comfort.

Every belief, habit, and relationship is either growing more fragile or more resilient. So we could make a habit of asking ourselves:

“Is my current approach to life strengthening or weakening me over time?”

Start anywhere. Start now. It's time to adapt and begin building a life that resists erosion, physically, mentally, and spiritually. That’s how you outlast what’s trying to take you out.

Frailty is stalking. Sedentary will seduce. Feebleness is waiting. How will you respond?

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Les Mottosky

Adaptation Strategist // I help organizations turn creativity into their competitive advantage by aligning leadership, culture and strategy to unlock adaptive innovations.

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